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Green Burials

Thoughtful Farewells That Honor the Earth

At Dancy Funeral Home, we believe that how we say goodbye can reflect how we lived — with care, intention, and respect for the world around us. Whether you’re drawn to a full natural burial, looking to make more eco-conscious choices within a traditional service, or want to “green” the cremation process, we are here to guide you through every option.

We’ve long served as a resource for both families and funeral directors nationwide — offering education, advocacy, and hands-on support for sustainable funerals. Funeral directors Bob and Julia have shared their experience with community groups and professional audiences alike, helping others understand the shades of green available.

There is no one-size-fits-all approach. Whether you want to return directly to the earth or simply make choices that tread more lightly, we’ll help you create a meaningful tribute that aligns with your values — and honors your loved one beautifully.

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What Is a Green Funeral?

A green funeral is any type of funeral service that reduces environmental impact while honoring a loved one’s life with dignity and care. It might mean natural burial or green burial without embalming or a vault, or simply making thoughtful choices — such as using a sustainably sourced casket or opting for native plants instead of imported flowers.

There is no single definition — rather, green funerals exist on a spectrum of sustainability.

At Dancy Funeral Home, we help families explore the many shades of green available, from the purest forms of natural burial to gentler, eco-conscious choices within more traditional services.

The Shades of Green
Natural Burial: A Return to the Earth

The purest form of green funeral care, natural burial forgoes embalming, metal caskets, and burial vaults. Instead, the body is placed in a biodegradable casket or shroud, and buried in a natural cemetery or conservation area where native flora can thrive and families can return in peace.

Key elements:

  • No embalming (or embalmed using formaldehyde-free alternatives if needed)
  • No vault
  • Simple burial in a wool, cotton, wicker, bamboo, willow, or pine casket — or wrapped in a shroud

Natural or green burial often invites deeper participation from the family. Some loved ones assist with washing or dressing the body, helping wrap the shroud, carrying the casket, or even lowering it into the ground. These acts are deeply moving and can be visceral, spiritual, and healing — transforming the burial into an experience of true connection.

Natural burials take place in woodlands, meadows, or designated green burial sections of a cemetery. These spaces are often free of manicured lawns or plastic grave décor. Instead, they are preserved as natural habitats, with wildflowers, native grasses, and trees. Grave markers are typically flat fieldstones, native boulders, or natural elements rather than manufactured headstones.

In many natural cemeteries, families may plant a native tree, bush, or groundcover over the grave. The burial itself may become part of a broader effort to conserve open land.

Natural Burial Cemeteries Near New Jersey

If you are considering a natural burial, one of the most important steps is choosing a cemetery that feels right to you and your family. Each location has its own atmosphere, history, and approach — and if time allows, we recommend visiting your top choices in person. Some families are drawn to open meadows, while others find comfort in wooded paths or hilltop views.

Below are several trusted natural burial cemeteries in New Jersey, New York, and Pennsylvania that we have worked with and confidently recommend:

Vail Cemetery – Parsippany, NJ

Closest natural burial option to Caldwell
Located just off the historic Vail Cemetery — which predates the American Revolution — this natural section is nestled in thirty acres of quiet woodland. Spring daffodils bloom along the forest paths, and a wildflower-filled meadow provides a serene setting for outdoor ceremonies. Families may mark graves with limestone stones, and services often feel intimate and deeply personal. Though operated by the Presbyterian Church of Parsippany, it is a non-denominational cemetery that welcomes all.

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Maryrest Cemetery – Mahwah, NJ

A Catholic green burial option, part of the Archdiocese of Newark
Set within a beautifully maintained section of Maryrest Cemetery, this natural burial area includes a butterfly garden, statue of St. Francis of Assisi, and a gazebo ideal for graveside services. Names are engraved on boulders along the winding path. The space offers a peaceful and spiritual setting, while honoring Catholic funeral traditions.

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Sleepy Hollow Cemetery – Tarrytown, NY

Historic and tranquil, just over the Hudson River
Just over the state line in New York, Sleepy Hollow Cemetery offers natural burial options in a beautiful hillside location above a river. Services can be held in their classic stone chapel, and the grounds offer a mixture of woodland and historic charm. This is a wonderful choice for those who value tradition and nature equally.

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Greensprings Natural Cemetery Preserve – Newfield, NY 

A pioneer in conservation burial and land preservation
Greensprings is one of the region’s earliest and best-known natural burial preserves. Founded by university faculty and staff as a conservation initiative, its sweeping meadows and forests serve both as burial ground and protected land. Each grave space is 15 x 15 feet, giving families room to plant a native tree or shrub without encroaching on neighboring sites. Graves may be marked with engraved boulders found on the land.

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Moravian High Acres – Canadensis, PA

Mountainous and peaceful, in the heart of the Poconos
Tucked into the forested hills of northeastern Pennsylvania, Moravian High Acres offers a mountain setting for those drawn to a more rugged, natural landscape. The cemetery is simple, spiritual, and especially well suited to families who want a quiet, elevated place of rest.

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Steelmantown Cemetery – Woodbine, NJ

Woodland charm in the Pine Barrens
Located in southern New Jersey, not far from Atlantic City, Steelmantown offers one of the most unique natural burial experiences in the region. Its wooded paths, quaint restored chapel, and antique burial cart create a sense of stepping back in time. It’s a beloved option for families seeking a deep woodland setting for a green farewell.

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What to Expect at a Natural Burial

While every natural burial is unique, the process follows a rhythm that is rooted in simplicity, intention, and respect. For many families, it’s not just a burial — it’s an experience of connection, care, and peace.

At Dancy Funeral Home, we’re here to guide you through each step with gentleness, professionalism, and a deep respect for your values.

1. Preparation of the Body
Natural burial begins with care. The body is typically washed and gently prepared, either by our licensed funeral directors or, in some cases, by family members under our supervision. If desired, the body may be washed a second time using essential oils or natural preparations, creating a peaceful and symbolic final act of care.
The deceased is then shrouded in natural fabric or dressed in simple clothing, and placed in a biodegradable casket or willow tray. All materials used are designed to return to the earth — with no metal, plastic, or synthetic linings.
We are trained and experienced in supporting families through this process, including when loved ones wish to participate. Whether we prepare the body on your behalf or guide you through it step by step, we ensure that every action is done safely, respectfully, and with heart.

2. Visitation and Services
Some families choose to hold a brief visitation at our funeral home, allowing family and friends a quiet moment of reflection before the burial. Others choose to have a funeral service at a house of worship, at our facility, or directly at the graveside.
There is no one “right” order — natural burials are inherently flexible and deeply personal.
Many families hold a graveside service in the natural cemetery itself. These ceremonies can be spiritual or secular, simple or formal, and often include spoken tributes, music, poetry, prayer, or shared silence. The beauty of the natural setting becomes part of the experience.
3. Burial Day Considerations
Natural burial cemeteries are often set in wooded, meadowed, or hilly areas with unpaved paths and open fields. While these settings are serene and beautiful, they are also rustic.
We recommend guests dress for the elements and wear sturdy, weather-appropriate footwear — especially during rainy seasons or in winter months. Seating at the graveside may be limited, and families are encouraged to consider accessibility needs in advance.
We’ll work with you to coordinate transportation, parking, and any necessary signage or guides to ensure a smooth and respectful experience.

Green Choices Within Traditional Funeral Services

Not every family chooses a natural burial — but that doesn’t mean you can’t make environmentally conscious choices within a more traditional funeral.

Whether you’re planning a visitation, church service, burial in a traditional family plot or entombment in a family mausoleum, there are thoughtful ways to reduce environmental impact while still honoring tradition, faith, and family expectations.

At Dancy Funeral Home, we’ll work with you to incorporate sustainable elements at every stage, based on your family’s values, culture, and comfort.

Sustainable Casket and Burial Choices
  • Choose a casket made from sustainably harvested wood, free of metal components or chemical finishes
  • Opt for a biodegradable casket even if burial is taking place in a conventional cemetery
  • When a vault is required, use a vault liner that’s open on the bottom, allowing for some natural decomposition
Formaldehyde-Free Embalming

If embalming is necessary — due to public visitation, travel delays, or family tradition — we offer formaldehyde-free embalming alternatives, made from plant-based or essential oil compounds. These options are gentler on the body and the earth, while still offering a natural and presentable appearance for viewing.

Green Floral Options
  • Use locally grown, seasonal flowers in place of imported floral sprays
  • Request recyclable or compostable floral foam alternatives
  • Include potted plants or native arrangements that can be replanted in memory of your loved one
Mindful Paper and Materials
  • Choose recycled paper for service programs, cards, and guest books
  • Consider a digital memorial board or slideshow in place of printed photo collages
  • Minimize one-time-use materials like plastic water bottles or individually wrapped items at receptions
Transportation and Venue Coordination
  • Hold services in a single location (or closely grouped spaces) to reduce vehicle use
  • If burial is off-site, consider coordinating carpools
  • We also work with churches and cemeteries to find meaningful ways to integrate sustainability into the day
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Reach out to us today with any questions. At Dancy Funeral Home, we’re here to guide you with care and compassion every step of the way.

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Greener Cremation Options

While cremation is often seen as a greener alternative to traditional burial, it still involves high heat and energy use, and it releases emissions into the atmosphere. That said, there are ways to make cremation more sustainable — and we’re here to guide you through every option.

Eco-conscious cremation choices include:

  • Alternative containers made from bamboo, willow, or other sustainably grown materials that burn cleaner than manufactured cremation caskets
  • No metal or plastic linings — choosing natural materials only
  • Biodegradable urns such as:
    • Reclaimed or sustainably harvested wood
    • Pressed paper
    • Recyclable scattering tubes
    • Cornstarch pouches, which naturally dissolve in soil or water, ideal for green burial or water scattering
  • Memorialization through land preservation, by choosing to bury cremated remains in a natural cemetery or conservation ground

Even after cremation, there are ways to leave a legacy that respects the earth — whether through how you return the remains to nature, what materials you select, or how you structure the memorial itself. We’re here to help you explore all of it, one decision at a time.

Why Choose a Green Funeral?

Every funeral is a reflection of life, values, and love. Choosing a green funeral is about more than reducing environmental impact — it’s about returning to simplicity, honoring the natural cycle, and creating a legacy rooted in care.

For some, it’s a personal or spiritual calling — the desire to return to the earth naturally. For others, it’s part of a broader commitment to sustainability and conservation. And for many families, it’s a way to create a farewell that feels intimate, meaningful, and connected to something larger.

Green funerals allow families to:

  • Minimize environmental impact by avoiding harmful chemicals, non-renewable materials, and resource-heavy practices
  • Preserve land through burial in natural cemeteries and conservation preserves
  • Support local ecosystems by planting native species and eliminating synthetic decor
  • Choose simplicity — with fewer manufactured materials and more natural beauty
  • Create participatory rituals that foster healing, connection, and grace

We believe that how we say goodbye matters — and that green funerals offer a path forward that is not only sustainable, but deeply personal and profoundly human.

Whether you're just beginning to explore this path or are ready to begin planning, we're here to help you navigate each decision with clarity, respect, and care.

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You don’t need a plan — we’ll help you create a natural, meaningful green farewell that feels just right.

Frequently Asked Questions About Green Funerals

What is the difference between a green burial and a traditional burial?
A green burial uses only biodegradable materials, avoids embalming with formaldehyde, and does not include a concrete or metal burial vault. Traditional burials typically involve embalming, a sealed casket, and placement inside a vault — which slows down natural decomposition and increases environmental impact. Green burials allow the body to return to the earth naturally.
Can I still have a viewing or service with a green burial?
Yes. You can have a full visitation, funeral, or graveside service with a green burial. Some families hold a brief viewing at the funeral home or a full church service before burial. We offer formaldehyde-free preservation options for those who wish to have a viewing.
Are green burials legal in New Jersey?
Yes. Green burial is legal in New Jersey, and we work with several cemeteries that offer natural burial sections. Each cemetery has its own regulations, and we’ll help you navigate those requirements — from permitted materials to grave markers and documentation.
Where can I be buried naturally near Caldwell?
The closest natural burial cemetery to Caldwell is Vail Cemetery in Parsippany, NJ. Other nearby options include Maryrest Cemetery in Mahwah, Rosemont Cemetery, Sleepy Hollow Cemetery in Tarrytown, Greensprings Natural Cemetery Preserve in Ithaca, Moravian High Acres in the Poconos, and Steelmantown Cemetery in southern New Jersey.
Is cremation a green option?
Cremation is often considered more environmentally friendly than traditional burial, but it still uses significant energy and releases emissions. However, you can make cremation greener by choosing clean-burning containers, biodegradable urns, and eco-conscious scattering or burial options.
What can I use instead of a traditional casket?
For a green burial, you can choose a biodegradable casket made of materials like willow, bamboo, pine, or seagrass. You may also choose to be buried in a natural fabric shroud or placed on a carrying tray made of wood or wicker. We’ll help you find an option that reflects your values and the requirements of your chosen cemetery.
Can I participate in the preparation or burial?
Yes, many families find comfort in helping with elements of preparation or burial. This may include washing or dressing their loved one, assisting with the shrouding, carrying the casket, or even helping lower it into the grave. We will guide you through what’s possible, and ensure every step is handled safely and respectfully.

What should guests wear to a natural burial?
Natural cemeteries are often rustic — with unpaved paths, meadows, or wooded areas. We recommend weather-appropriate clothing and sturdy footwear. If seating or accessibility is a concern, we can help coordinate arrangements to make the experience comfortable for everyone.
What happens if it rains or snows?
Natural burials take place outdoors, and services typically continue rain or shine. That said, we’ll always work with you to prepare for weather conditions, arrange tents or coverings when possible, and adjust logistics to keep guests safe and comfortable.
Are there newer green options like aquamation or human composting?
Yes, methods like alkaline hydrolysis (aquamation) and natural organic reduction (human composting) are growing in popularity across the U.S. However, these processes are not currently legal or available in New Jersey. We’re closely following legislation and look forward to offering them in the future as laws change.
We're Here to Help You Plan a Meaningful, Earth-Friendly Farewell

Whether you're just beginning to explore sustainable options or have a clear vision for a natural burial or green cremation, we’re here to walk beside you — with practical guidance, compassionate support, and deep respect for your values.

At Dancy Funeral Home, our goal is simple: to help you honor a life well lived in a way that aligns with the life your loved one led — and the legacy they leave behind.

Contact us to learn more about green funeral options, local cemetery requirements, and how to begin planning.

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