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Modern Funeral Etiquette: What to Know Before You Go

At Dancy Funeral Home, we understand that attending a funeral can bring uncertainty—especially when it comes to etiquette. While traditions still hold meaning, today’s services are more flexible and centered around celebrating life. If you're joining us in Caldwell, NJ, here are a few thoughtful tips to help you feel comfortable.

Be Present, Not Perfect

There’s no dress code set in stone. While respectful attire is appreciated, we believe your presence matters more than your outfit. Neutral colors and neat clothing are just fine—what’s most important is that you came to show love and support.

Share Memories Freely

Don’t worry about saying the “right thing.” A kind word, a hug, or simply listening means a lot to grieving families. Feel free to share a favorite memory or comforting story—it’s those moments that help celebrate a life well lived.

Stay Off Script

At Dancy Funeral Home, we believe funerals are personal. You don’t need to know every tradition. Just follow the lead of the service, silence your phone, and be respectful of others’ emotions.

Come As You Are

Whether you’re family, a friend, or a coworker, you’re welcome here. We honor individuality and understand that grief looks different for everyone. Your presence brings comfort, and that’s what matters most.


Dancy Funeral Home is proud to serve the Caldwell, NJ community with compassion and care. If you have questions or need support, our doors are always open.

"Where there is love there is life."

-Gandhi

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