Barry Schaefer

Barry Schaefer, 80, passed away peacefully on Monday, January 26, 2026, surrounded by his loving family.

Born in Newark, Barry was raised in Union. He later lived in North Caldwell for 40 years, where he and his wife raised their family and became deeply rooted in the community, before residing in Mendham for the past eight years.

Barry was a beloved husband, father, and grandfather whose kindness, patience, and forgiving nature left a lasting impression on everyone who knew him. He shared 57 loving years of marriage with his devoted wife, Phyllis (née Blanche).

Barry was a proud father to his two daughters. His loving family includes his daughter Kristin Giangerelli and her husband, Frank, and their three children, Alyssa, Alexa, and Frankie, who brought him immense joy as a grandfather. He is also lovingly remembered by his youngest daughter, Tracy Dwarkha, and her husband, Rohan, as well as by his sister, Bonnie Mayer. He was predeceased by his brother-in-law, Robert Mayer.

Barry worked for over 40 years as an Electrical Contractor, employed by Germinsky Electric in Plainfield and later by HBC Electric in Roselle. He took great pride in his work and was known for his dedication, precision, and strong work ethic.

Barry was a faithful volunteer at Notre Dame Parish and Make-A-Wish Foundation. In his free time, he found great joy in winemaking and fishing, hobbies that brought him relaxation and happiness. Above all, Barry cherished time spent with his family and friends.

Memorial visiting will be held at Dancy Funeral Home, 9 Smull Avenue, Caldwell, NJ, on Thursday, January 29, from 4:00 to 8:00 PM. A Memorial Service will take place on Friday, January 30 at 11:30 AM at the Gate of Heaven Mausoleum in East Hanover.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Barry’s memory may be made to the Make-A-Wish Foundation of New Jersey, a cause close to his heart. Condolences and memories may be shared with the family on his obituary page at dancyfuneralhome.com.